You said yes when your parent needed help. Maybe it started small driving them to appointments, checking in more often, helping manage their medications. And then gradually, without anyone really deciding it, you became their primary caregiver. You're still working. You may still be raising kids of your own. You're answering texts at 10 p.m. and lying awake running through tomorrow's logistics in your head. And if someone asks how you're doing, you say "fine" because what els